WHY do people tell you that being different is a good thing? Standing out of the crowd makes you an individual because you are not doing what other people are doing. People that have their own style are saying "Hey, I am not doing what the other crowds are doing," but other people who think the person with his or her own style is weird try to help the person get back into the "norm" group.
I just don't get how people tell kids to have their own style to seperate them from the rest of the group, but then try to tear down that person's individualism by putting that person down for having a different style.
People who wear makeup enhance their beauty. Just because that person's eye shadow is dark doesn't mean that they are going gothic or are covering up how ugly they are. Yes, some guys like when girls wear different shades of eye shadow because the girl is a person who has her style.
People who don't have their style aren't individuals and follow the crowd. People rely on their brains while other people can rely on their looks. People who are smart and go through law school always think they know what's best for another person's future. I'm here to tell you people who are smart and go through law school have their right to their own opinion, but why can't they keep it to themselves?
I though while a person is young they are not suppose to fit into the "norm" groups, and it's okay to be considered weird or "peculiar". Why do people who have a differnet style get teared down by the people who can't keep their opinions to themselves?
People want to express their style even if other people don't agree with the style.(you wanted to know what i thought)
1 comment:
I totally agree.
There are some people out there that assume their opinion is the only right way, when in reality I believe they need to step down to humility and accept others for who they are.
And about the make-up...I know men who like girls who wear make-up because it shows that they are taking care of themselves, and not just rolling out of bed putting their hair in a pony-tail with a bare face.
I personally like wearing dark/colorful eyeshadow, at times, to express myself and let my creativity/talent show...a lot of girls don't know how to put on make-up and that's why they are boring and bare.
If I wanted to attract "those kind of men" who like the 'natural' look, then I would roll out of bed and not touch my face...but since I like men with style and an open mind, I put on as much make-up as I feel like it, pleasing myself, not trying to impress the men.
I think men have no room to tell a woman how she should look, unless it is their wife,
and if you don't agree,
think twice.
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